Relationship is important, of course not only between valentines, but also between people. It’s kind of science. We always face problems in relationship, a lot of us has high IQ, but low EQ. How to deal with people? Human beings are complex, are there any ways we can do to be a popular?
Actually, there’re 15 rules can help you:
No.1 Appearance is not rebarbative. If you’re not good-looking, then be intelligent; if you can’t, then smile all the time.
No.2 Habitude is important. If you can’t be elegant, then be pure.
No.3 It’s unnecessary to begin a sentence with “I” all along. Try beginning with “We”.
No.4 Don’t force your friend to see your family album.
No.5 Insist saying good things behind people, don’t worry your words can’t be heard by the one you praised.
No.6 When someone talking illness on others before you, just smile.
No.7 Do not let all your past be known by others.
No.8 Respect the one dislikes you.
No.9 Self-critical is believable, neither does self-praise.
No.10 Learn to be a thankful person.
No.11 Sometimes ask while knowing the answer, such as: “Your diamond ring must be very expensive.” Sometimes shut up even you want to know the answer, such as: “How old are you?”
No.12 Applaud for anyone who is on stage.
No.13 Learn to be a listener.
No.14 Never ever expecting everyone likes you, that is impossible. Make most people like you is successful enough.
No.15 Of course, love yourself first.
Above all are the golden 15 rules. If you want to be popular, then practice them. Less narrowness and more smiles can make a better world.
Above all are the golden 15 rules. If you want to be popular, then practice them. Less narrowness and more smiles can make a better world.
Good advice! You should give a oral report on some of these points. Your classmates will benefit from the wisdom!
ReplyDeleteSurely, I have benifited from it. I have read the passage carefully,and decided to apply it to practise. Or, maybe, what we lack, at least I, is not the proper attitude, but abilities to react to words in a short time. Above all, thank you for your advices.
ReplyDeleteYou advice is useful. After reading the 15 rules, I think that I do not achieve most of them. Sometimes I just can not help doing things which are not supposed to do, which causes me much trouble. At the same time, I pay too much attention on others' thought. That makes me sensitive and can not concentrate on my own work. Learning to make people like you is a kind of art. Thank you for your advice.
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